wicksy wrote:i was asleep at the time for night shift so techincally i was silent then
Same for me.
I want to go to Next years dawn service, i haven't been to an ANZAC day service since my grandfather died, There is a bit of a story to this as to why.
My grandfather like many others, served in WW2, he was a mechanic on the spitfires in darwin. I was the only grandson that ever asked to wear his five medals in an ANZAC parade, and he let me. Now my father and one of his sisters dont get along at all. and when he passed my nan, aunties (except for the bitch we hate) and dad all sat down and talked about wat to do with the medals, being traditionally they would go to the eldest son, and dad being the only son would have got them. They came to an agreeance that i being the only grandson that had wanted to wear them, had shown an interest in the war or showed that i cared in the matter by marching or how ever, should have them. ( One of my cousins is in the army as an electrician) On the day of his funeral the auntie and uncle, who my father, mother and i despise, asked if they could borrow the medals to polish them so they would look pristine on his casket, naturally we agreed, in good faith. The medals never made the casket. The last time i saw them together, was the day of his funeral at the wake, where the cousin who is in the army had split them up off the plaque, thing that you pin to your shirt. My fuckwit auntie and and her fuckwit husband and two fuckwit sons had decided that if they cant have them then i shouldn't, there were 5 medals and 5 grandsons, we got one each. i haven't nor has my mother and father spoken to those "family members" since. we did not get along with them before then, and we beleive that they did it to get at us and piss us off. I haven't been to an ANZAC day service since because i always wore them when i went and it wouldn't and will not feel the same without wearing them.
You'd think that my "cousin" who is still in the military to this day would have had more sense than to split them up like that.
While its not karma 3 of his 4 kids have both physical and mental disabilitys and organ problems.....
One day i am going to try and get all five back together and reunite them and wear them proudly again as i once did.
But whether the wankers in the family or not will let me take the medals they got to reunite them, is another story.